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My name is Ellie, I'm a feminist. I'm passionate and emotional and sick of apologizing for it.
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"It seems to me that on one page I recognized a portion of an old diary of mine which mysteriously disappeared shortly after my marriage, and, also, scraps of letters which, though considerably edited, sound to me vaguely familiar. In fact, Mr. Fitzgerald (I believe that is how he spells his name) seems to believe that plagiarism begins at home."

Zelda Fitzgerald, in a review of her husband’s book in 1922

Reminder that F. Scott Fitzgerald stole his wife’s writing, many times, while suppressing her works. See “Save Me the Waltz”, which he forced her to revise so that he could use parts of it in his own book “Tender Is the Night”. And which author do we study in school?

(via rubyvroom)

He also encouraged her to have affairs so he could use that for inspiration, and when she wanted to leave him for a man she fell in love with, he locked her in their house and wouldn’t let her leave.

When she wanted to publish “Save me the Waltz,” Fitzgerald wrote in his diary about DELIBERATELY trying to TRIGGER her schizophrenic episodes and making her incapable of fighting that battle.

And Fitzgerald scholars KNOW all this.  They write articles about how it was all okay because in the end, it inspired Fitzgerald to write Great Literature.

(via prozacpark)

No seriously this is just the tip of the iceberg. Zelda had to stay in institutions for awhile and Fitzergerald was AWFUL to her, constantly putting her down and psychologically abusing her. She tried to get away from him and lived with family for a long time - it was just this horrible vicious cycle. When doctors told him to work on his alcoholism because it was making Zelda’s condition worse Fitzgerald threw manbaby fits and acting like asking him to stop drinking was ABUSE or some shit. He was a horrible shit stain. Like I could go on forever about all the horrible shit he did to Zelda. Like any time she had an artistic endeavor he shot it down and suppressed her. He was very intimidated and jealous of her talents and squashed them at any opportunity. You can read the biography Zelda to find out about it.

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"Of course I am not worried about intimidating men. The type of man who will be intimidated by me is exactly the type of man I have no interest in."

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, TedxEuston (x)







"‘no’
might make them angry
but
it will make
you
free."

if no one has ever told you, your freedom is more important than their anger, nayyirah waheed


moseby:

what do u say to ur sister if she is crying????? are you having a CRISIS




nprfandom:

i would much rather be the “obnoxious feminist girl” than be complicit in my own dehumanization, thanks









"The sad truth is that certain types of things can’t go backward. Once they start going forward, no matter what you do, they can’t go back the way they were. If even one little thing goes awry, then that’s how it will stay forever."

Haruki Murakami, South of the Border, West of the Sun


I fell out of love with you the night before you changed your mind
I wanted to be a lioness
I wanted to clench my teeth at the sound of your name
Your sudden change of heart shook me
and I bent at the knees
You laid in your bathtub fully clothed 
and I tried to console you
But my love is a drunken haze 
I’ll drink you all up and get bored
I’ll swallow the soft image of my love
in your head
It’s white knuckles and missed calls at 3am
It’s too nervous to keep saying yes
yes yes
I’ll be yours again









"A lot of the time when you tell someone that you’re bisexual, they ask for your credentials. They ask how many men have you dated? How many women have you dated? Which one do you prefer? Which one have you had more sex with? These are incredibly personal questions that you wouldn’t ask a straight or gay person, but bisexuality has “less validity” so we get asked all these stupid, intimate questions. And if you don’t want to answer then someone will make assumptions about you but if you do answer, and the fact is out of the three people you fucked two of them are one gender and one of them is the other then people will decide whether you are gay or straight, they’ll make the decision for you."

Bisexual Credentials-RitchandFamous



ambivalentlyyours:

“To try to write love is to confront the muck of language; that region of hysteria where language is both too much and too little, excessive (by the limitless expansion of the ego, by emotive submersion) and impoverished (by the codes on which love diminishes and levels it).”
Roland Barthes, A Lover’s Discourse: Fragments